Is Caring For Elderly Parents a Burden or Responsibility?

January 6, 2010 by James Blackburn · Leave a Comment
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When you are old and gray where would you like to spend your last one year as your body slowly with­ers away?   Would you like to see the smil­ing face of your grand­chil­dren every morn­ing as they greet you before leav­ing for school?

Or would you like to be woken up by the loud plas­tic cur­tain being ripped open to let in light by an over­grown, for­eign immi­grant who barely speaks Eng­lish?  Read more

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Make Peace To Be Happy

April 29, 2009 by James Blackburn · Leave a Comment
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How to Apol­o­gize

For over 10 years, I have found that writ­ing with­out a doubt is the best method of com­mu­ni­cat­ing strong feel­ings BEFORE a face to face meet­ing.  The rea­son is because when strong emo­tions are present peo­ple react and inter­rupt with­out intel­li­gently choos­ing their response.

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Long Term Memories are Key To Happiness

April 8, 2009 by James Blackburn · Leave a Comment
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Every­thing learned with­out emo­tion attached includ­ing; facts, fig­ures and edu­ca­tion is stored in our short term mem­ory and soon for­got­ten if not prac­ticed and recalled.  This explains why elderly peo­ple trans­form into chil­dren when they grow old.

Many times the only thing grand­par­ents talk about are old emo­tional mem­o­ries and they become much chal­lenged when it comes to log­i­cal, numer­i­cal infor­ma­tion.  Why is that? Read more

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Let 1 Woman Crown You, or Women Will Destroy You

April 7, 2009 by James Blackburn · Leave a Comment
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Why Get Mar­ried

Note: The title is aimed at het­ero­sex­ual men, but this arti­cle holds true for homo­sex­ual men as well.  Just replace the word woman with man in the title.

Women are man’s lead­ing sup­ply of energy.  Women will make or break you.  Men will fight harder than they’ve ever fought before…for a woman.  Women fuel man’s fire, they also put it out.

Women will drain every last ounce of energy from your soul until you have noth­ing left, but to rot in hell.  I can assure you, if you don’t let a woman crown you, women will destroy you. Read more

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Givers Receive More than Receivers

April 6, 2009 by James Blackburn · Leave a Comment
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How to Be Happy

The plea­sure one receives from giv­ing is 100 times that of receiv­ing. Know­ing this and given the choice, if you could be 100 times hap­pier wouldn’t you choose to give instead of receive?

By only receiv­ing you imprison your­self into a lower state of mind, less hap­pi­ness, and less able to think big­ger because you feel “depen­dent” whether you con­sciously are aware of it or not.

Depen­dent peo­ple psy­cho­log­i­cally will ALWAYS be weaker than inde­pen­dent peo­ple.  Read more

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